The Resilience Milestones
Behaviours and skills to develop as your child grows
From ages 4 to 18, children go through a critical journey; one that prepares them for confident, capable adulthood. At the heart of this journey is independence, shaped by what we call the 10 Accomplishments of Character, the foundation of emotional strength, self-discipline, and resilience.
To grow into resilient adults, children need to reach key behavioural milestones at each stage of development; essential skills and habits that help kids handle life’s challenges with confidence.
Your Role as a Parent
As a parent or caregiver, you are your child’s most important guide. We recommend five core actions to support your child's progress:
Set the example – model the behaviours you want to see
Praise and encourage – focus on effort, not just outcomes
Teach and inspire – explain the 'why' behind your values
Coach and discipline – guide, don't control
Track their progress – use our Milestones to see how they’re growing
And above all— let kids be kids through play, exploration, and connection
The greatest gift you can give your child are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.
Dennis Waitley
Developmental Milestones in Children
As your child gets older, their level of personal responsibility increases. From simply brushing teeth to contributing to family meals and managing their own financial situation, it is important for their growth and development that they can prepare for the independence adulthood brings.
Split into two year timelines, our Milestones act as a guideline for raising confident, resilient, and independent children - giving them the skills to stand on their own two feet and combatting the rising levels of mental health issues in younger generations.
