Reclaiming childhood. Rebuilding community.
Once upon a time, kids roamed the streets, played until dusk, and made their own adventures - all without adult supervision. They learned independence, made lifelong friends, and grew into confident, capable adults.
Today, fear and over-supervision have pushed that world into memory.
It's time to bring it back.
The Child-Friendly Community
WHAT IS IT
A critical element in raising psychologically healthy children. The skills and knowledge kids acquire when they spend a chunk of their time out on their own are priceless and necessary if they are to grow into mature, confident and self-reliant adults.
These include:
Problem solving
Negotiation
Compromise
Tolerance
Making/keeping friends
Pooling resources
Making decisions
Dealing with problems
Taking sensible risks
Managing anxiety of new situations
What Does a Child-Friendly Community Look Like?
Children from at least 8 yrs are on the streets and in parks and shops in daylight hours without adult supervision
They are free to play within agreed neighbourhood boundaries
They regularly play independently away from home - on the pavement, in quiet streets and parks - in groups and on their own
Groups of children roaming about on their own with no adult supervision are a common sight
Children play their own games, make their own rules and resolve their own squabbles independently of parents and neighbours
Children are known to their neighbours and can seek help when needed from anyone who supports the community
They leave home and come back at agreed times, and phone if they are running late
They regularly meet other kids without adult company and make new friends
Adults in the neighbourhood understand and support a child-friendly community
Adults are aware kids are about and keep an eye on them but don’t intervene except in a genuine emergency
It is no coincidence that the disappearance of child-friendly communities and the essential extinction of free play opportunities have been accompanied by the alarming increases in childhood mental health disorders.
4-17 yr olds were assessed as having mental health disorders in the last 12 months (Young Minds Matter)
1 in 7
of adolescents in Australia experience clinically significant depression or anxiety symptoms (Murdoch Children’s Research Institute)
Almost 75%
of all lifetime mental illnesses begin at age 14
(National Mental Health Commission)
50%
Start a Child-Friendly Community in Your Neighbourhood
Want to see the positive impact on your streets with your children?
Read the Positive Parenting Guide Here
It gives more in-depth information into the steps, benefits for young children and the positive impacts it can have on our neighbourhoods.
Set Safe Boundaries
Child-friendly doesn’t mean neglectful parenting. Set safe boundaries within the community that are agreed upon between parent and child.
Talk to Your Neighbours and Host a Community Meeting
Community works through collaboration and everyone being on the same page. Share our free flyers and downloadable resources.
Normalise Seeing Unsupervised Children Playing
Letting kids be kids out on the streets and in the parks, without adult supervision, is healthy for their development and resilience building. It is not a cause for concern unless in a genuine emergency.
Welcome All Kids
Open your home to children within the neighbourhood and ask neighbours to do the same, allowing kids to feel safe within an agreed boundary.
Engage Local Council and Police
Explain the benefits of a Child-Friendly Community and prevent misunderstandings.
It takes a village.
Creating a child-friendly community doesn’t just benefit kids, it revitalises entire neighbourhoods.